The first thing that a man looks in a woman is her appearance.
The way she looks.
This necessarily does not mean you have to step out from a movie shoot, but this means that you should be well groomed at all times.
Your nails should be manicured, and feet pedicure.
Hair should be made properly and you should wear something in which you know you look good.
You should also be comfortable in what you wear.
And remember spraying perfume to you r self will do the trick.
Men want to be with women who take care of themselves and who also smell good.
But do not over do it this can send a negative message to a man.
If you took a shower in the perfume bottle, then that shows the man that you want attention.
Do it subtly but make sure it is effective.
Flirting is a good way to start, ask for something.
Playing the dumb game does not always work.
Men now days prefer smart intelligent woman.
So if you want to ask for the latest news week article or what the latest buzz is on politics do not hesitate.
Engage in a conversation, once you start communicating, man's attention would divert from your looks to your personality.
And if both of those rock then your set.
Try to be casual and do not make the other person seem as if they are the centre of the universe.
If the man takes some interest in you and you feel this could lead somewhere, then there is no harm in giving them a compliment.
Make sure you don't say or do anything clumsy or talk about your past relationship.
Just be casual, someone who is optimistic, hardworking and yet beautiful.
If you want to pull of the old dumb look then the bar would be the best way to meet someone.
But if you are looking for compatibility then make sure the man notices your intelligence.